Invitation of Japanese to their house
When I first came to Japan, I noticed something very different compared to Malaysia. In Malaysia, it is normal to invite friends to our house. Sometimes we suddenly ask our friends to come over, eat together, or just spend time chatting. However, in Japan, inviting someone into your home feels much more special and personal. I watched some videos about Japanese invitation culture, and I learned that many Japanese people do not easily invite others to their homes. One reason is because Japanese houses and apartments are usually small, so people may feel embarrassed about the limited space. Another reason is that Japanese people value privacy very much. Their home is considered an important private space that is only shared with close friends or family members. I also learned about the concept of “uchi” and “soto,” which means “inside” and “outside.” In Japanese culture, people slowly build trust before letting someone become part of their “inside” circle. Because of this, relatio...